Posted by caraher on January 27, 2007, at 10:31:32
In reply to Re: Has your therapist ever.? -very long - sex trigger, posted by Scentedgarden on January 27, 2007, at 10:19:33
>>> i have to be someone she would like to know,more importantly be someone i would like to know, and not a boring person sitting crying my heart out and doing myself no favours...
I've read some of your past posts but I don't really have a "complete" picture of you. My initial reaction to this need is that you already ARE someone she would like to know. She's really said as much already. She would sit down for coffee with you if you bumped into each other. She likes your hair, the way you dress. She said she thought of you at Christmas. She says she doesn't "love" you, but I'm certain what she means by that is romantic love. At the very least she likes you!
And if you're good enough for her, it sounds like you should be good enough for yourself.
What do you like to do? What if she called you up and said, "I'm bored, let's go do something together?" What would you like to suggest (that doesn't involve sex)?
Now go out and do that, by yourself or with other people. Even if you feel too much like your heart is about to burst to do anything. It's what she'd want you to do!
poster:caraher
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