Posted by slugdoo on July 19, 2007, at 11:52:43
In reply to Re: feeling weird » slugdoo, posted by Nathan_Arizona on July 18, 2007, at 12:18:29
Hi Nate,
I like all that you said, I think a lot of it is ture. I thought I had all the anger out over this, but recent stuff I guess proves otherwise.
I was kinda surpried when I was telling him what was going on, that I said I am so angry. I was crying at the time but I said it so bluntly that I kinda shocked myself. He said, yes, and you have a right to be angry. Even though he said there are no reasons for what happened to me that would validate what they did and why, I still look for the answers. I just can't imagine doing what my parents did to my kids.
Today I bought a computer desk to organize my office, and of course it is one that requires assembly, my DD 12, wanted to put it together, so I let her do .( my attention span, attempting that would be a bad idea)lol She made a few mistakes, but nothing that bad and she was so upset that she messed it up. We looked at the mistakes, and nothing was unfixable or noticable, and she felt a lot better. My mom would never let me do something like that, and if I did make a mistake, I would have been punished for being so stupid. I am so glad I am not like her.
So how do you get rid of anger?
Thanks Nate for everything.
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