Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on July 25, 2007, at 11:34:06
In reply to Re: i feel so close » sunnydays, posted by OzLand on July 24, 2007, at 23:50:06
Okay, so pretend like I'm judgemental...
I have no bad judgments about this whatsoever. You needed something to feel connected to the here and now. something to keep you from drifting. A mental image wasn't strong enough, and now you have a sound-image. I don't see how it's any different than keeping a voicemail as a reminder of T's nice voice, or finding a pic of T online and saving it. Of remembering a poignant thing that T said and writing it down. These are all very good coping mechanisms to keep us going when things get confusing.
I cannot see how any boundaries were crossed. Think about how vulnerable your T made himself. Worried that you might judge his music, and instead you responded with caring and genuine interest. You sound like a really sweet Sunnydays, and no wonder he felt like sharing.
-Ll
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