Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on July 25, 2007, at 11:41:13
In reply to Am I a whiner, wimp, dumb*ss or what???, posted by muffled on July 25, 2007, at 0:36:00
>NOONE is 'there' totally for ANYbody. I kinda wished she hadn't of said that. She said it to the ikid too. Mebbe thats where the prob is comming from, why I can't seem to let this go.
Or mebbe I just getting all messed and wish I could hear her being calm. She makes me calmer. But now its like she don't exist.
I wish she was not so gone :-(
Ikids so sad.
Things getting messed.
(((((muffled))))))That sounds SO hard. no wonder you're stressed out. you have learned to rely on her good judgement and her ability to soothe you. There's absolutely nothing "wimpy" about wanting to be taken care of. It's one of our primal instincts. Remember, humans are a very defenseless species. no claws, stupid dull teeth, thin hide. We HAVE to rely on others to help us in difficult times.
And yeah, you're probably stressed about the trip. I know *I* was stressed about my trip and that's why I cancelled it. I cancelled it twice, after deciding that hopping on a plane would send me into a tailspin because the connecting flight is through Chicago. Too familiar territory, you know? Site of many dissociations.
And husband and kids and dog. you care about them and don't want strife. Just take the plunge and get in the vehicle and head to Alberta. Sounds cool. Wish I could go to Alberta...
I wish you a safe and happy trip. See you when you get back, post a little tonight if it would help you?
-Ll
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