Posted by LlurpsieNoodle on September 5, 2007, at 8:34:48
In reply to Re: I'm jealous » LlurpsiEnOoDLe, posted by LittleGirlLost on September 4, 2007, at 21:23:56
hi LGL, nice to meet you too :)
I *have* seen you in the archives, and I've been here for some time, so I've read your posts too. I'm so glad I'm not alone. I just got the impression from reading so many posts that HAVING feelings for T is very natural, and that EXPRESSING these feelings comes more easily to [most] others than me.
My formerT and I talked about this at termination. I remarked that I would really miss her, and how could I ever let her know how much I appreciated her? conversation turned to the T-me relationship, and she acknowledged that she KNEW how hard it was for me to talk about the relationship, but that I had done really well for only working with her for 9 months. Maybe it will take 8 months with my currenT, the quieT, until I feel comfortable talking about it. Maybe we need some history together? I dunno... hmmm. so tricky.
sorry your email backfired. maybe you were too subtle, tiptoeing around some delicate issue... I do that a lot
take care LGL, and I hope that you can figure this out as therapy unfolds. I hope I can too!
-Ll
p.s. don't worry about not being much of a poster, we all go through phases ;)
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