Posted by Honore on September 6, 2007, at 11:19:34
In reply to Therapy session disaster, posted by RealMe on September 5, 2007, at 23:14:15
Hi, RealMe.
Thanks so much for your response to my dream.
I have to run this minute-- but I wanted to add my thoughts to others who have said that the session really wasn't wasted at all-- you learned a lot-- about your own feelings, and your T's, too-- that he was seeing you for the entire time--which, if you'd mentioned it, you'd never have known. Maybe unconsciously, you needed to know what he would do without your putting him up to it.
I don't think he did it because of you-- I think he did it because of how he feels about you-- that is-- but I think he wants to see you and let you know, and also live up to his commitment and caring for you.
But I do understand the feeling embarrassed-- and yet it's great that you did confide in him what you felt-- even if it isn't resolved and feels awful for the moment. I hope you're feeling better today. Your next appointment won't be bad, I think-- you may even find that you feel much better afterward. You really really didn't do anything bad, or anything that all of us haven't done hundreds of times-- ourselves.
((RealMe,Ozland))
Honore
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