Posted by RealMe on September 8, 2007, at 23:07:17
In reply to Muffled and anyone.... crap continued, posted by Dory on September 8, 2007, at 22:13:30
Dory
I think you should show your therapist all of what you wrote and write since he decided on the "new" boundary definitions. You see I don't think this means he doesn't care about you and is only acting like he cares. Acting like you care takes too much energy, so much more than actually caring.
See my therapist made a mistake I learned or I suppose the billing person, but that person would not have made the mistake if he had conveyed what he told me. Back when I told him I was upset that he was shorting me time, he said the session for that day was free. I just got my bill today, and I was charged for the session. So, should I now decide he doesn't really care about me. I don't think so. I am upset about it, and I am not going to let it just go. The point is, he is human, and so now what.
In your situation you need to address your feelings with your therapist even if it is from your writings. Please try to do that.
RealMe
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