Posted by RealMe on September 8, 2007, at 23:59:45
In reply to Re: Muffled and anyone.... crap continued » RealMe, posted by Dory on September 8, 2007, at 23:42:36
Sorry; I didn't mean all of what you have wrote; just what you wrote since his "mistake" and how you have felt about it. Or alternatively, write up something now, something new that expresses what is going on with you now since that time and how you are not so sure anymore you can ever be trusting or happy. It is a place to start afresh.
You see; I think, no I know things can get better. Is it true that you don't allow yourself to be human and make mistakes, and therefore it feels horrible when he makes a mistake? I don't know if that fits or not.
I know for me I can be very self-critical, and then it spills over to my T who I think should not make mistakes. I have to constantly remind myself he is human and also I have to remind myself that I am human too and that it is okay for me to make mistakes too.
RealMe
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