Posted by myrtledog on May 29, 2008, at 12:54:49
In reply to Re: Not a thing » Dinah, posted by raisinb on May 29, 2008, at 12:19:17
I feel like this. I'm in what feels like *almost constant* contact with my T ( i can text her and i do this sometimes up to 10 times a day - all hours of day and night She usually replies, too). Yes, i have issues with attachment and dependency(!!) And i feel TORMENTED with need for her and tormented by whether or not to text. But curiously recently, when on two occasions, each lasting about a week, i've been unable to text her due to big events in her life (this is the first time in 2 years i haven't had this privelege) I feel FREE of torment and need.
I know i've just gone to the opposite polarity, and now am faking expreme INdependence. But god, it's a breather. I can totally relate to hearing your T's voice and falling apart when you were previously ok. Do you think you really were Ok??
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