Posted by Dinah on June 15, 2008, at 22:19:58
In reply to Re: also » muffled, posted by Happyflower on June 15, 2008, at 20:06:30
It sounds as if you might suspect your current therapist has discussed you, directly or indirectly, with your old therapist. I think that would make me angry too. I don't want to think of my therapist talking about me with anyone, even if he didn't use names. I cringe at how he might describe me.
Maybe he just knows your old therapist enough to guess what he'd think. While I was seeing T3, my therapist was very careful to try to smooth my ruffled feathers about her. But the fact that he knew her was obvious.
Before you get too angry with your current therapist, maybe you should ask him directly? I'm guessing you trust him enough to believe his answer.
Your old therapist it's fine to be angry with. But I agree with Annierose. Bringing him to court would probably be at least as hard on you as it would be on him, and expensive. I'm not saying you should forgive him. But doesn't it hurt to carry that anger around. For your own sake, mightn't it be good to work on that anger with your current therapist?
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