Posted by llurpsienoodle on July 29, 2008, at 18:56:18
In reply to Re: That reframing thing » Damos, posted by Partlycloudy on July 29, 2008, at 18:16:47
PArtlyCLoudy,
You are such an amazing person. What a break through- you HAVE been working so hard.My T was talking today about how hard it is (but important) that we, as adults, come to view our parents as we would any other adult. Quirky, flawed, miserable to hang out with, hilarious, etc -- and to decide our level of involvement based on our assessment of them right now. I kind of like this step of pre-forgiveness.
(((((((((partlycloudy)))))))))))
you have an intact and strong heart. You are deep and sensible and have a quiet wisdom. THAT stuff does not go away when you start to sever ties to your "story"
hugs for you,
-Ll
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