Posted by rskontos on September 17, 2008, at 17:29:22
In reply to Re: T Touching Himself » sassyfrancesca, posted by Wittgensteinz on September 17, 2008, at 17:03:35
Sassy,
I have read your assessments and questions about your t for awhile now. I haven't responded much because I don't any experience with transference so I did not feel qualified to give much of an answer. However a pattern seems to be emerging with respect to your T. Remember not too long when you were presenting or going to the APA Hawaii convention and he claimed he never led you on. And how upset you were?
IMHO, he is playing a cat and mouse game with you. He baits and retracts with this flirtatious game and when you sometimes ask him directly he denies it.
He is dangerous and this is a dangerous game. You have posted in anguish about your situation. It just doesn't seem healthy to me. Now I am no expert. But I feel he has hurt you tremendously and the game he is playing is so potentially damaging to you. You are worthy of so much more. He has violated his professional ethics yet will not own up to it. He toys with your affections and no where do I see how it is therapuetic only seems to be something to booster his own ego.
Please please please take care of yourself in this ploy of his for that is what I feel it is and you are at risk.
I care about the damage he has done and the damage he can do in the future or may be doing as we speak.
You deserve a T that treats you safely not like this.
And you deserve peace from all you have already gone through. It seems to me he is further exposing you to trauma.
Take care my friend.
rsk
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