Posted by Amanda29 on September 19, 2008, at 16:37:34
In reply to Re: UPDATE....not so good., posted by Wittgensteinz on September 19, 2008, at 1:14:59
How I feel now is SICK. I am disappointed, confused, hurt, frustrated, ticked off, I want to scream and yell at him for "challenging" me the way that he did. I emailed him several times telling him my thoughts, and I have NEVER been in the room with him angry...I am afraid to be angry in front of him because I am afraid he will get irritated or angry at me. He says he can take my anger but I am not so sure. He is really big on Challenging me..and that is FINE...I dont like it but, I told him that next time he does something like that it would be nice if he would clue me in on what he was doing rather than making me fret over something possibly being wrong. I was honestly concerned about him..and about me.. and apparently I was the one at fault.
Has anyone ever gotten really angry and expressed it in person to their T? How do they take it?
I have expressed myself in email...and he replies and it upsets me..because it is hard to hear a tone of voice...obviously over the internet..and so I would rather talk in person.
He really messed me up. I sent him my posts about being anxious about the session so he could see how worked up I was getting..but he hasnt replied and I dont know if he will because it is the weekend...we shall see.
I shared what happened with my dad and sister and they cannot stand him anymore...I like him...he helps me and just beacuse I dont agree with something that he has done..doesnt mean I am going to drop him...I know his ultimate goal is to help me ..I just dont always understand his ways.
But right now I am pretty upset and if he replies and is ANY KIND OF NEGATIVE...I am going to loose it..
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