Posted by DAisym on September 19, 2008, at 20:39:42
In reply to Re: You and Dinah are right » Dinah, posted by antigua3 on September 19, 2008, at 9:07:39
My guess is that the longing for your pdoc has a lot to do with the male/safety thing. You want a dad to come and make it all better - even as you know that 1) Dads don't already do that and 2) your pdoc won't. But that doesn't stop the longing for a safe, logical, supportive person.
And I think it is a male/female thing, in some ways. I also have to wonder if this is about needing to show your hurting self to him and see if he will comfort you. I could be way off, of course.
I'm sorry this has happened. I know how excited you were about this job. I hope you can find another partner and in the meantime, keep working on the pieces that you can so that you don't lose momentum.
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