Posted by DAisym on September 19, 2008, at 21:45:03
In reply to I miss him so much, posted by 10derHeart on September 19, 2008, at 3:12:00
Tender,
Did writing any of this help? I hope so. Grief is such a powerful force and so painful. Missing someone is tough, but it is so much tougher when you feel like you can't talk about the missing part. Like you shouldn't actually be missing them this much...or even at all.
One thing I've really learned is that relationships that we have via internet or phone can be strong, deep and very real. Often these are the people who are current in our lives - sometimes more so than people we see every week. It doesn't replace those face-to-face meetings, but it can still provide access in a pretty great way. I like the idea of going back once in a while, but you'd have to schedule double sessions for a few days in a row! :)
I'm glad you are posting. I think it helps to get it out, even if there is no solution we can offer except to encourage you grieve as long and as hard as is necessary.
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