Posted by stellabystarlight on September 19, 2008, at 23:58:31
In reply to Re: Partners' feelings about your LT therapy? » stellabystarlight, posted by lucie lu on September 19, 2008, at 23:16:04
Lucie,
Yikes!!! Your husband stumbled upon your journal entries about your transference? No wonder it's causing problems for you and your husband. As psychologically sophisticated as my husband is, he would have a very hard time understanding my intense and passionate transference. I'd better be extra careful about leaving my computer open.
Gosh, I'm sorry Lucie. I can see how your husband's reactions have complicated your therapy. It's hard enough to do therapy without having his feelings to deal with. Have you thought about marriage counseling? Would he be open to it? Maybe a counselor can help your husband work through his insecurities, etc. and help him understand how therapy has helped your relationship.
Stellabystarlight
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