Posted by Looney Tunes on January 13, 2009, at 14:37:37
In reply to Is it supposed to be all about the relationship?, posted by Looney Tunes on January 12, 2009, at 20:01:13
Well, Thanks everyone.
I have been with T for 7-8 months. Before this T, I have only had one other adult T for 5 years and unfortunately, I can't remember the process...that is why I ask these questions.
So, trust and abandonment is huge for me. I understand that intellectually. I was a foster kid and my life was not stable. BUT, no matter what happens, it comes back to the relationship with the T.
If my work place burned down, I probably would not mention it. Seriously, unless someone got hurt or killed.
I might say "I know you will see that x building burned down on the news tonight and you will think I did it, but I did not."
That is what I would say. And T would say "I don't think you would burn down a building"
And I would say "Yes you do." and then T would say "Why do you think I think that?" and then I would say "forget you, because you think I am a scumbag."...and it goes on....What if you are not sure what you are supposed to do in therapy to make you right?
Should I be further along in therapy. Past this?
poster:Looney Tunes
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