Posted by DAisym on January 22, 2009, at 21:26:47
In reply to I want my therapist to be less careful, posted by Dinah on January 22, 2009, at 12:47:50
I have to wonder if this isn't just another way to have an argument - to put a little fire back into your sessions.
I don't think this is something you can figure out how to say, but rather it might be done with persistance around a subject. For example, you have been talking about being more social - so keep talking about that. And talk about what you wish you'd done better, how etc. I think he'll get it, that you really want to talk about it.
You used to have a deck of cards, of subjects that you wanted to eventually talk about. What has happened to that? Maybe it is time to bring it out.
And I think it is great that you feel secure in the relationship again.
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