Posted by baseball55 on July 10, 2016, at 19:13:08
In reply to Outrageous Psychologist, posted by Lamdage22 on July 10, 2016, at 6:06:42
> So this guy is like "you like being ill because you want attention from your parents". And he is like "you dont want to work". But WHY dont i want to work? Its because i have depression. And i not only dont want to work, i also cant.
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> CHange Therapist?Run, don't walk. So judgmental. Even if these things were true (and I'm sure they're not) rule number one of therapy is don't challenge people's defenses until they have skills in place to change them. So to just start by challenging and judging you.I agree. Sounds outrageous. There are, unfortunately, a lot of rotten therapists out there. Hope you can find someone good.
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