Posted by baseball55 on July 30, 2016, at 18:35:44
In reply to Re: new person, posted by rjlockhart37 on July 30, 2016, at 0:41:18
I wish you the best. It is hard, though, to change without some kind of outside feedback. Most of us lack the self-awareness to really see how and why others see us and we see others, and to really understand what changes need to be made. Many find such help in religious groups, 12-step groups, therapy groups or individual therapy.
> i apologize for plugging up the boards with my posts, i need to just all put into one post instead of scattering out onto the boards
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> but i've made a choice, that i will begin to change myself, my own saying "everyday you can become someone new" i belive in very much, the reason is because i'm not happy with the person i am, and both want to change and show people the way's to do it......everyone used to tell me just by yourself and they never knew the heartache that was, so the chance to become a new person....not a serperate idenity, but change the current self.....
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> listen to music, and think of events in your imagination of how you want to people to see you, use the mirroring technique where you see a image, or a short clip of something and try to integrate it into your own personality......music can give you emotion to change, the feeling of the moment where you have the inspiration to change
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> my own desire for someone to talk to understand be there for me.....it never happened, so you look inside and use the imagination to heal abandoned feelings, using it like as projection of youself.....have the feel of emotion to become what you want
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> starting this i hope to change, and help other people change at the same time
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