Posted by rjlockhart37 on May 29, 2018, at 21:07:28
In reply to just need to talk, posted by b2chica on May 24, 2018, at 22:28:05
i've had that similar feeling, i've kinda just learned to be away from people because it seems when im in social situations, i have psych myself up to socialize, but on base level im not a socializer, yet deep down i don't want it that way, i wanted to have alot friends, and a thriving life, went back to highschool days and re write my history with being being happy and going off to a university, getting a nice career. I've alternatied paths, and had to justt learn to use mind to creae things, and expand. That very feeling you just had said, having someone to be there, i know exactly what that feels like.
the way i started thinking out, to start getting in social situations, find a party or something, websites like meetup.com which is like a group, try get there and meet people, and plan how your gonna do it. Still i go to socials and am the most awkward person there, frozen with anxiety, i have psych myself up. Plan what i'm going to say, because im not spontaneous around alot of people. Going out way, to know someone and connect, it's hard to do that....like having a friend that would understand and be there. I know exactly what your feeling, so don't give up and post here just for more posts from us
everything can change like that, and all these years go by so fast, but nothing lasts forever
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