Posted by baseball55 on June 3, 2018, at 17:46:32
In reply to Re: just need to talk, posted by B2chica on May 30, 2018, at 21:17:05
Do you have dependent children? Best thing I ever did was leave my husband but by that time, my daughter was out of the house and working. Sometimes you just have to look at your marriage, no matter how long you've been together, and ask - is this making me unhappy, really?
> Thank u.
> Im a major introvert and am exhausted easily by droll conversations. Im also a writer, so times introvert by 3 and increase it that pi...
> Also family makes it hard . Truth is I dont really want more friends, I just want to feel less alone which is caused by Crappy marriage...
> a person never feels more aimlessly alone than when they are with someone who resents and dislikes them... me.
> Sometimes a small part of me wishes I had a brain injury that made me dumb, since I know it is in part my intelligence that makes him feel less. And I dont think that, nor do I say that, elude to that, or in anyway degrade him. He is smart and I tell him that, but he is riddled with sarcasm, self deprecating comments and can get easily belligerent with me.
> Hes very socially needy, and as an introvert that is exhausting for me.
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> Thank u
> b
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