Posted by Krazy Kat on April 10, 2002, at 10:16:01
In reply to still in hell, posted by lili80 on April 9, 2002, at 9:00:09
lili:
i haven't been a real part of these posts, and i'm sorry.
please get a therapist now if you don't have one. these are issues, imho, that you need to discuss with someone who has seen them before and knows how to react. and i'm not even a pro-therapy person. :) i did go to a therpay of sorts when my marriage was in grave trouble, and it helped a lot.
it seems like these feelings are prevalent and consistent, and having others' professional reassurance that they are incorrect could be very valuable.
it took me awhile to learn to just drop people, including best friends and lovers, who were negative in my life. but that's the way life is, and the way we survive. if you can, never answer this person again, and to hell with the lies they may be spreading, to hell with what they think. this seems to get easier to do as one gets older. maybe because one just starts getting tired. :)
- kk
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