Posted by zenhussy on November 19, 2003, at 0:36:48
In reply to Re: mind reading? you and me both sistah!, posted by sienna on November 19, 2003, at 0:31:54
> you are real good at this.
> its hard for him to communicate. and i dont know how to draw him out. maybe we will begin learning now. its been so chaotic this last bit but i think we can try to fix things. if he wants too.
> i dont know i think maybe you are right. we have to learn to help each other. and i have given so much i thik i need to teach him how to reciprocate. hes not a bad guy, he just doesnt seem to know what to do. hes seems scared of something or i dontknow.
> sienna (who is so glad zenhussy has helped me think through this stuff) (thanks)Bingo! He needs tools to learn how to do this. As do you. As do I. As do many. We're all on this path together. No one has relationships all ironed out and can say to others "here is exactly how you do it!" Pish!
You're getting the hang of this toots! I am glad to see/read you thinking through this. It shows me that you are recognizing that this isn't 'your' craziness but a crazy situation.
Night now fer real! I'm to bed and that's that!
zh
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