Posted by Kath on December 22, 2007, at 18:52:22
In reply to Re: CoDependency strikes again!, posted by Justherself54 on December 22, 2007, at 8:46:02
> Yes, I can relate to that..for some reason I'm the person a lot of my friend come to when they have problems..maybe I'm a good listener, I don't know..but it can be draining..it's hard to know where to draw the line when it comes to friends in crisis..I try to use the "common sense" approach..if a friend is having relationship problems, yet always returns to him, I just listen and support, yet not get too involved, cause I already know the outcome..if that makes any sense!
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> Hugs back to you!Yup, that makes sense. I think trying to remain detached is part of what helps me.
K
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