Posted by rainbowbrite on June 24, 2005, at 10:17:06
In reply to Re: correction, posted by sunny10 on June 24, 2005, at 8:46:18
> you'd be surprised, I think, by how many people DO understand this stuff!
well i dont know...sometimes I think there are exceptions to that...the things people say or dont say...its just not even near normal whats going on...so how can I expect people to grasp it? you know?
> For some reason, it is just always easier to logically put ourselves in someone else's shoes and offer support and advice.
Yes thats very very true!
> Mainly because when it is OUR problems, we are already so immersed in them (and panicked) that rational thought is just beyond us in that particular period in our lives. Or. at least, that's my theory.
I think its a correct theory. Im definately lost in this.
> Thanks for asking if I'm okay. It comes and goes... I'm having a particular problem with fear of abandonment which is causing some irrational thinking and sleepless nights.
> My SO and I had made a pact to tell each other right away if we felt something was amiss instead of letting it get bigger than it really is in our minds before talking about it.
hey thats such a great idea!
> But I have been thinking some pretty horrible thoughts and made the mistake of telling him, which caused a fracas. Now I have had to tell him that I can't make good on this pact until my meds are working properly. Of course, he was so hurt by my "accusations", that he has readily agreed that the pact is on hold.aww thats good of him, It sounds like from what you have written that he is a good guy? Yeah I saw something about your meds....are they still being weird or I should say, they are still making you feel weird?
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