Posted by kid_A on June 20, 2001, at 12:34:20
In reply to ADs and love, posted by Joe Schmoe on June 19, 2001, at 17:45:04
I'm going to agree w/ Dana on this one. I am in a very similar situation that you are in, except my object of affection just happens to be my best friends girlfriend...It doesnt really matter who it is or what, I had similar paterns with other girls... Things were broken inside of me that did not let me progress beyond the loss. Any loss. I could not come to grips w/ the facts of a situation, and it seemed like I couldnt go on...
The one important thing, and my crush who is actually a good friend, convinced me of this, is to seek some form of councelling. I dont think that just taking a pill is going to solve all of our problems... It can be tremendously helpfull if you can find someone to talk to who understands how you feel and can give you some insite as to how you can learn to grow as a person...
I mean thats what this is all about, right? Hopefully some of us out there grow as individuals so that we can look at ourselves in a new aspect and see starlight, not a black hole.
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