Posted by starlight on June 15, 2004, at 11:15:06
In reply to Re: SOMEONE HELP ME, posted by mattsit on June 15, 2004, at 9:17:28
It's a tough situation, but one thing I've heard is that telling her, is really about you unloading - it's for you, not for her. I would try to let it go - it's in the past, your thoughts about your ex probably have more to do with some fear that you have about your current situation and a bit of an escape mechanism. I agree, see a therapist and ask yourself what it is about your current situation that you fear. Just remember that unloading has more to do with clearing your conscience and will only hurt her. It's more important to ask yourself why you're caught up in this circle of guilt.
starlight
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