Posted by captain on June 15, 2004, at 14:54:32
In reply to Re: SOMEONE HELP ME mattsit, posted by psychodad on June 15, 2004, at 14:37:55
Mattsit, You should go see a counselor. I think that will help. I was married a few years ago and ended up cheating on him twice. I never did anything horrible, but your conscience tells you what constitutes cheating. I can tell you this, even though we have been divorced for over 2 years, I never told him and he never knew - and 2 years later I am still dealing with the guilt. I wish I would have come clean at the time as it would have blown over. The difference is that I wanted to move on so if I lost him, it was going to be okay with me. If you aren't sure how to handle this with your wife, go to counselors - it was great for me. If I could do it over again, I would have admitted my actions right away. You have to stop calling the ex. If your wife finds out - you will be in deeper s**t than you will be that you even messed around with her 6 months ago. If she ends up coming clean with your wife, then you two can deal with it together. Your marriage is stronger than that I am sure. Marriages have been thru much worse! Good luck!
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