Posted by curtm on September 5, 2006, at 10:45:10
In reply to Re: Hm... My husband just made an observation... » llrrrpp, posted by Racer on September 5, 2006, at 0:23:22
...but most importantly, you NEED to approve of yourself or any other kind of approval doen't matter (much.) You need to accept that you tried the best you could and be satisfied with that and move on. You can't change what you disapprove of, so just approve it. Learn from those moments and smile knowing that you did, whether you really apply it later or not.
I have been suffering some esteem issues at work lately, especially with authority figures. No. scratch that- especially with MYSELF. Perhaps I will post later on the work board. I could really use some insight. A silly rule of mine is "You can give 110%, but if you work on two things at the same time, you can only give each 55%." But that is still the best I can do.
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