Posted by ClearSkies on September 13, 2006, at 12:29:55
In reply to Re: It is that... » ClearSkies, posted by Phillipa on September 12, 2006, at 19:48:15
> Clear Skies not my choice as Greg insisted on three checking accounts. One his, one mine, one ours. The ours pays for electiricity and stuff like that. I guess I'm used to paying for my own house, boat, car and all my expenses when working. We by no means have a traditinal realationship as i did with my first husband. He paid for everything. I was supposed to cook, clean, shop and take care of the house. Love Phillipa
My point, Phillipa, is that it's not by choice that I do not contribute monitarily to the household. I have no income, zilch. If I did, it would go right into the running of the housejold, no question of it.
That I have no income to contribute is the thing that contributes to poor self esteem for me.I think you have not acknowledged this, and I feel frustrated that I did not make myself clear.
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