Posted by bookgurl99 on June 9, 2003, at 15:56:52
In reply to Re: Changing Therapists - What Sex?? » judy1, posted by fallsfall on June 7, 2003, at 18:56:17
Falls,
this is funny because the vibe i get from my (lesbian) therapist is that she thinks i should also see a male therapist in the future. this is because in the beginning, i had a little crush on her -- even if i did get over it and never mentioned it, it was still there.
it might be useful, because you're not as likely to have those crush-like feelings on a guy.
but, i'd still rather go to a woman therapist. preferably a lesbian. i just feel like having the same cultural background from which to draw is important for me.
oh -- and i can admit that part of me would sort of like to kiss her sometime. in another lifetime and body maybe, i could be a dreamy butch woman and waltz in and solve all her problems in life. i think this says more about my relationship with women in general -- i have a generally protective attitude towards them -- than with just my therapist, though.
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