Posted by fallsfall on June 16, 2003, at 9:35:45
In reply to Re: Termination...?'s, posted by Dissociative Jane on June 16, 2003, at 9:07:40
Hi.
You can read about my transgression at http://www.dr-bob.org/babble/psycho/20030407/msgs/221129.html. (Note the subject of that thread: Forever Therapy. I wish that it was).
We made a lot of progress in the first 7 years. We both agree that we had a really good relationship.
We did talk about how I thought she was angry, and her effect on my self esteem. The last time we talked about her anger, she insisted that she wasn't judging me. The problem was that I was judging me - based on what I thought she was thinking.
I do feel better knowing that I am leaving - that helps me know that I'm doing the right thing.
I am interviewing other therapists this week. I even cancelled my appointment with her (Unheard of!).
She has been so important to me that I want to do the termination thing right - to minimize the damage. I just need to know what that is!
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