Posted by terrics on March 4, 2004, at 15:05:56
In reply to how my t is dealing with my si (caution may trig?), posted by crushedout on March 3, 2004, at 20:13:29
Yep, I think she should ignore it, especially because you admit that you do it for her attention.
Sadly this is a scary way to get attention. There must be something that you can do to get her attention and to help yourself. It seems that you are the stronger of the two and that you do have insight because you are honest about why you do things so you are aware of the other side of the coin. I realize you would have a hard time leaving her, but you just admitted that she does not do anything right. Perhaps you will get strong enough to look elsewhere.
I consider my relationship with my T. an addiction and hope that I get out soon.
Good luck either way. I am worried about you getting scars though. terrics
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