Posted by tryingtobewise on February 7, 2005, at 17:06:19
In reply to A dependency on your T, posted by mair on February 7, 2005, at 16:06:55
I definitely resist becoming emotionally depending on my T. I hate good-byes, and knowing that therapy can't last forever inhibits me from developing an attachment that will cause great pain when "good bye" comes.
Also, I tend to be somewhat obsessive and I don't want to find myself in a situation where the time in between appointments is just a count down. Years ago I had a T., who I was more dependent on than I liked, and that is how I felt.
So for now, I keep it as a very warm & friendly "business deal".
It will be interesting to see how people respond.
Kim
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