Posted by gardenergirl on February 9, 2005, at 11:30:13
In reply to Re: An Update » daisym, posted by antigua on February 9, 2005, at 9:52:06
Thanks for the update, Daisy. I'm glad your husband is doing a bit better and that he doesn't need surgery. I'm glad you are taking some time just to breathe, too.
I hope you don't stop therapy right now. I can hear how painful that idea is to you. Do you think you can go in and talk about what is going on right now instead of dealing with the memories? What would happen if you did that? If you got support for now? Can your therapy process shift to a more immediate need?
Whatever you decide, please know that you are not alone, and you do not have to do this alone. Lean on us, lean on your T, lean on your friends and co-workers. You do look like a Superwoman, but the world will keep going if you need a break. I hope that doesn't sound harsh. But things really will be okay. They may need some patching up later, but decide for yourself what your priorities and needs are and don't let anything get in the way of fulfilling them. You deserve it!
(((((daisy)))))
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