Posted by mair on February 10, 2005, at 9:45:02
In reply to Do your Ts like you?, posted by pinkeye on February 9, 2005, at 19:54:50
Mine says she does, but I can't always take that in. She's gone so far as to say that if we knew each other under different circumstances, we'd probably be friends. She's also had to reinforce a bunch to times that she likes working with me, although that's sometimes a hard sell too.
Lately I've had a little easier time taking in the message that she does care about me. She'll respond to things in a way which seems genuine to me. It's made it alot easier for me to take some risks with what issues I choose to raise.
Everyone has their own style and it sounds like your T is more invested in being more of a blank slate. My T and I have talked alot about the blank slate approach lately. It would be a tough approach for me to deal with. I tend to need a lot of reassurance.
Mair
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