Posted by happyflower on December 5, 2005, at 14:07:32
In reply to Re: therapist outside of office setting » happyflower, posted by sleepygirl on December 4, 2005, at 19:51:10
Hi sleepy!
My attraction began the first day of therapy and I feel we have done really good work together. Even though we play around a little, he still is a T when I need him to be.
When I am talking about my issues I am not that concerned with how it is effecting him, it is his job, and I am paying him to be my T . Sometimes I feel a little gulity if I am too hard on him or difficult, but from what others have said, it is common to feel that way.
I do agree that our mutual attraction needs to be discussed, and I plan to when I am ready. I have still managed to work well with him in spite of it all. Maybe it has allowed me to even trust him more because I do feel close to him. The first thing in therapy I needed to do was learn to trust him before I could open up to him. I am still benifitting from therapy, if I wasn't I would have quit a long time ago, in spite of what I feel for him.
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