Posted by allisonross on December 6, 2005, at 5:01:47
In reply to Tamar (long post) » Tamar, posted by happyflower on December 5, 2005, at 14:26:50
> Hey, Happyflower:
That's funny you said if he gave you the "green light." My t asked me "If I were to give you the green light, would you go for it?"
He told me he didn't think I would. I think I would. I mean 2 years of (fantastic work and therapy), but ALSO flirting and discussing both....of our feelings.(foreplay)...geez....He said that "my colleagues would tell me to run fast and far, but I will never abandon you."
Seeing what is going on, I know he should.
Smiles, Ally
. Hi Tamar!
> You are right the way I will know is to ask. I know he is VERY honest with me, but I wonder HOW honest he would be if I asked if he was attracted to me. I think he might say that he was, why deny it when he KNOWS I would see right through him if he lied to me about it. But I would except him to do the "proper" thing a T should do and tell the client that it can't go anywhere. At least that is what I am expecting, because he does have a very fine repretation in the community.
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> But I still feel he has more than the average feelings for me than most clients, and I was just wondering if he was stuggling with that himself. You know he just turned 50 this year, and he did tell me he went thought a mid life crises. Maybe he finds my attraction satisfing his big ego. LOL Half his clients are kids, so it probably doesn't happen too often a good looking babe like me has the hots for him. LOL
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> But even though I would love to have my way with him, I think I am expecting in the end, it will not happen, and he will still remain ethicical even though he might want to have hot sex with me. But I do think if he gave me the green light, I wouldn't be able to resist because I like him so much and I have never been so attracted to any guy this much. It's insane! So the flirting might all be fantazy material, but it is fun to talk and think about at least with you all, if it could happen. :)
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