Posted by Gabbix2 on December 7, 2005, at 17:21:18 [reposted on December 8, 2005, at 0:18:58 | original URL]
In reply to Re: The Green Light and my T » Gabbix2, posted by Tamar on December 7, 2005, at 16:41:57
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> I think I know what you mean… But when I was in the depths of transference hell I longed for an opportunity to joke about my fantasies in a playful way with people who understood.I think that's the important part..understanding, and sharing maybe *privately*. I d on't mean you have to deny them.
I've not had a therapist, and I don't think it would really put people at risk, but I've read really painful stories here of people who have been taken advantage of by their T's, and who originally thought it was their own decision.
So it's hard for me to see it as harmless, because of what it may bring out in those who've been victimized.That is really all I was saying, because of that I personally can't see it so lightly.
But then, I have a problem taking lots of things lightly.. : )
Thanks for asking.
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