Posted by allisonross on December 7, 2005, at 17:38:55 [reposted on December 8, 2005, at 0:18:58 | original URL]
In reply to Re: The Green Light and my T (Happy, don't miss th » allisonross, posted by Gabbix2 on December 7, 2005, at 16:18:42
> What you fantasize about is entirely up to you, when it's private
> It's hard for me to see such a landmine of a subject as teasing, or harmless, especially considering who the audience is likely to be on a board like this.I'm not sure what you mean. This is a a board for "social" stuff, and there are many topics for conversation. Knowing the difference between my stuff and others' stuff is the key...if it bothers me, or I don't understand, I don't respond. I don't want to judge or criticize anyone. We all need to be gentle and kind to one another.
Sorry I offended you. I was simply sharing my feelings for my therapist. That has been done by others here, also.
I'd compare it to a high school student writing public fantasies of seducing a teacher.
Well, you have a right to your opinion, as we all do. It sounds to me as if there is something else going on with your feelings. As I told my t (and he knows it), I am a natural....flirt; I do it with everyone (in a classy way).
I felt criticized, and cannot bear those feelings, and that makes me sad. It doesn't feel safe. I just came out of a 31 year marriage of abuse (and childhood of the same), and am trying to heal.
My best to you...Sincerely, Ally
P.S. We really never know another person, and how much better to ask some good questions before criticizing (said as gently as I can)
P.S.#2...if this topic offends you, make sure you don't read Happyflowers posts :)
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