Posted by orchid on December 10, 2005, at 1:04:15
In reply to Re: totally losing it here :*** ( *warning** » Tamar, posted by Frida on December 9, 2005, at 20:03:47
Hi Frida,
I am sure your T cares a lot about you and isn't even thinking of abandoning you. Perhaps you can ask her to give you something to be reminded of her caring to hold on to when she is gone.
If your T thinks it is better not to open deep wounds at this time, I think it is right. Without her being there, opening up more painful conversation might prove to be disastrous - especially with the holidays around.
I hope you can seek support from babble when your T is not there. Hang in there.
((Frida))
> ((((Tamar)))))
> Thank you so much.
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> I can't stop crying :-(
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> I realize I am really hurting over my T leaving and I feel afraid of her abandoning me and not wanting me- I need some reassurance I guess..
> I'm just scared she might be tired of me too :-(
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> You are right, it's so hard to cry in T---
> It frustrates me and hurts because I cry the moment I walk out of the door but i can't just let go with her wanting it so badly.
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> I'll write a letter to her- I do need to tell her I'm afraid of her leaving me and not wanting to work with me anymore - I need reassurance .
> this is so hard :-(
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> Thank you for reaching out to me.
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> I'll try to take it one day at a time..
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> love,
> Frida
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