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Re: I have forgiven him but... » happyflower

Posted by JenStar on January 3, 2006, at 23:12:24

In reply to I have forgiven him but..., posted by happyflower on December 30, 2005, at 11:30:08

happflower,

I worry a bit when I read your posts above about your T.

It sounds to me like you've kind of lost track of what your therapy was supposed to be about, helping you. Instead, you're completely focused on the RELATIONSHIP with your T. It sounds like you're completely wrapped up in HIM as a person, when he's really supposed to be just a mentor/helper/person to guide you to healing.

I'm a bit worried about you. You know I don't judge people for who they love and who they care about...I don't think there's anything "morally" or "spiritually" wrong about loving your T.

But I worry that you are becoming consumed with this PERSON, and as a result, you're losing track of YOURSELF as a person.

I'm sorry if that is abrupt or hurtful, because I don't mean it to be. I hope you continue to improve in the things you want to, and that this all resolves for you.

take care,
JenStar


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