Posted by fairywings on January 5, 2006, at 21:38:11
In reply to Re: Hating the rules. » fairywings, posted by daisym on January 5, 2006, at 21:00:03
> I struggle with the words "need" and "want." Sometimes I'm absolutely sure I need him to stay together. Othertimes I wonder if I'm indulging a childish want.
***I know the feeling. I'd like everyday, I'd like twice a week. I love his kindness, I hate my building attachment. I keep thinking "quuuuiiiittt beforrrre it geeeeetssss tooooo llaaaatttteee!" Kind of like a whisper in my ear. ; ) I don't think it's indulging a childish want, I think it's seeking the loving parenting we never had, until we're strong enough to provide that for ourselves. Have you ever listened to any of Caroline Myss's CD's? They're wonderful. If you're interested, I'll do a double quote here, just to get you to a link "Warming the Stone Child".
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> I'd like to still know about the neediest client.***Ask! ; ) What's the worst that can happen?!
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> My favorite is: "Try to stay here and just say words...anything that tells me what is going on." So I said, "words." He laughed.***That's too funny. I haven't felt amused all week, but that did it. Thank you (((daisy))).
Wish I had a quick wit.fw
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