Posted by one woman cine on January 6, 2006, at 13:36:55
In reply to How do you forgive your therapist for being, posted by Susan47 on January 5, 2006, at 20:34:52
Maybe he really is afraid of you. Put yourself in his shoes. I understand you have been hurt and are hurt currently. But what you do affects people. I don't think you need to forgive him for being afraid of you. I think, in fact, you are projecting. Do you feel he needs to forgive you?
I don't think it's about being lovesick or anything else.
"I felt sick to be sickening, and man did I ever let him know how sick it felt. "
This can be scary to someone who no longer sees themself in a relationship with you.& by continuing to call, even when you know "it's crazy" is setting yourself up to be seen as "crazy". You are further victimizing yourself by perpetuating the behavior and the repetitious cycle. No matter what he did, no one else is responsible for the present situation but you.
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