Posted by happyflower on January 6, 2006, at 15:19:09
In reply to thnx for the book info Zen! (nm) » zenhussy, posted by B2chica on January 6, 2006, at 9:03:43
(((B2))) I agree with what ghost has posted, right now my mind is too clogged to even come close to the good advice she had. It was even hard to read your story, it must feel really painful to know this.
You know when you are a child who has an abuser for a parent, you really want to be loved, and "sexual touch" does feel good,and feels like love, even if it is inapporpiate relationship.( you didn't know that, but your mom should have) You were a child, it is your mother who took advantage of you, and your innocence of being a child. Your feelings you were having were natural response to touch. The touch you received was wrong, but not your feelings. You can't control your feelings, as my T would say.
B2 is sounds like you are doing good work.
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