Posted by 10derHeart on May 18, 2006, at 22:14:10
In reply to does the pain of losing a T ever go away....., posted by shrinking violet on May 18, 2006, at 21:30:56
I'm so sorry you still sound so sad, sv.
But I'm very glad to see your name here.
I think of you and wonder how you are sometimes.
I think it can fade gently away in time. I still miss my former T and it's been nearly 2 years, but the pain is tucked away and it's not so bad now. My current T. made a world of differnce, but of course, now I am very attached to him...<sigh> It's all hard, isn't it?
And my situation isn't the same, 'cause we've been in email contact and things ended well. So it's not fair for me to compare, I suppose...but I still believe when you find the right path for other things in your life, then that precious relationship can fall into a special place, one that can ache from time to time, but in a bittersweet way that's quite bearable.
And I don't blame you if you don't believe a word....(((((((SV))))))))
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