Posted by shrinking violet on May 24, 2006, at 19:40:54
In reply to Re: does the pain of losing a T ever go away..... » shrinking violet, posted by orchid on May 18, 2006, at 22:36:13
That's very sweet, thank you orchid. I think my former T tried....Was she perfect? No, of course not. I think she made some faulty judgements, but I know she tried her best and didn't intentionally hurt me. I also think she put herself first a lot of the time (also with the prompt termination), but maybe I pushed her to it. I just hope someday I can feel better about this, get some closure with her, get some answers. I fear I never will, more than anything else.
Thanks again,
sv> Hi SV
> Nice to see you around here... I had been thinking of you every now and then.
>
> Yes it is very hard... I won't say it will get better, .. It is rotten, and I am only sorry you are going through the pain which you didn't deserve. You are a good person, and for whatever reason your T did this to you, you don't deserve it. Maybe she is n't as good as you thought her to be. No good T or person will leave a patient to hurt like this no matter what the reason is. You deserve better.
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