Posted by Jost on May 21, 2006, at 23:01:31
In reply to Re: I called him today and left a message--HF? » Daisym, posted by Larry Hoover on May 18, 2006, at 15:41:01
> > ****The male/female dynamic is like that elephant in the room. But in this case it's standing right between them, and neither can see the other any longer. Instead, each sees their own responses to the other, projected onto the elephant.****
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> > Hmmm...maybe. I think the pain here (not to speak for HF) is about wanting validation and support from someone we trust to gently tell us the truth but not just drop it at that.
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> My gut is telling me this one has gone awry. I don't know better words for it than what I used. The therapist man let things go too far. It was his duty not to, but I think it did.
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> LarGee, I hope this doens't mean there was some sort of seductiveness going on. That's really completely utterly unacceptable--whether acted out, or just under the surface. I mean there's a line, a level of intensity that's okay--where both people are comfortable witih the limits--but there's a point where it is totally destructive.
I hope I'm overreading here.
Jost
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