Posted by Iwillsurvive on March 12, 2007, at 13:57:19
In reply to flashbacks,how to share in T? *might trigger*, posted by frida on March 11, 2007, at 1:33:01
Yeah Frida, mebbe you like me and don't look at T much, so they don't realize we've left.
One time she did notice, and she was very sweet, she talked in her calming voice, don't remember the words, but I mostly came back. Sometimes it takes me awhile.
But it was fine, she was fine.
I think it was nice to not be alone in my goneness. She couldn't actually be 'there', but I knew she was 'nearby'. Yeah, I think that was good.
But I like you. I usu just go away and leave w/o telling. I go and sit and rock somewhere out of the way, and tell myself, "its OK" over and over, until I am more back.
But at the time its hard to tell, cuz if you not there, well, then how do you tell?
And it occurs to me as well, and I haven't figgered how to bypass this, but if you have a flashback, and then security kicks in, and you dissociating, then HOW to bypass security, which WON'T let you tell?
Dang, this is all very confusing to me.
Good thread.
Take care.
I am interested to know how it goes, and how you did it.
Thanks
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